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With many people now living longer, there is an ever-growing demand for aged care support. How do families negotiate the transition into aged care?

Richard talks with Annette who’s worked in aged care for over 30 years and shares encouraging insights for families facing the move into aged care.

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Moving a loved one into aged care is emotionally complex.
Families often feel grief, guilt, and exhaustion when transitioning a parent into care, especially daughters who struggle with not being able to do more.
Parents may feel abandoned or resentful.
Many residents believe their family “put them there,” creating feelings of sadness, confusion, and a deep longing for familiarity and home.
Not every transition goes smoothly.
While many eventually settle, some residents remain unhappy—highlighting the need for ongoing compassion, presence, and understanding.
Ongoing visits and love make a difference.
Even when met with resistance, continuing to show up with patience, love, and prayer can bring comfort and maintain connection.
Spending time and listening matters deeply.
Elderly residents often feel forgotten—taking time to sit, talk, or simply hold a hand can bring dignity and reassurance, especially in their final days.
Small acts of love bring the greatest comfort.
Whether it’s bringing a favourite treat or just being present, regular visits from family communicate one simple truth: you are still loved.

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Faithful living through all the seasons of life, including retirement.