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‘I call it the society blueprint. You finish school, you get a job, you get a partner, you buy a house, children, retire. So, if you don’t fit the blueprint, where do you fit in society?’
Emma is constantly faced with questions around her single life. She’s also been given plenty of unwanted advice! Listen as Emma shares how she navigates society’s expectations as a single person, and the hope she discovered in embracing being single.
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Key takeaways from this episode
Society pressures singles to follow a relationship blueprint.
Emma feels the weight of expectations to find a partner, have children, and “tick the boxes,” but challenges the idea that this path is the only valid one.Being single does not mean being lonely. Though she’s not married, Emma finds fulfilment and companionship through friends, family, colleagues, and self-confidence in doing things solo.
Supportive relationships make all the difference. Emma feels most loved when friends and family understand her reality and support her without constantly questioning her relationship status.
Acceptance and peace came with time and faith. While events like weddings and baby showers once brought pain, Emma has grown to accept her season of life, trusting that God has her journey in hand.
Faith is her foundation of identity and belonging. Emma leans on God as her constant, knowing He’s placed people in her life who accept and love her fully, with no strings attached.
Her singleness has opened up unique opportunities. Emma embraces her ability to travel, mentor young people, and serve others—living with purpose beyond traditional life milestones.
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We live in a world with more than eight billion people! With so many people, it’s amazing that anyone would ever feel alone. But even though we are surrounded by all these people, many times our suffering and pain go unnoticed. We often feel isolated, cut off from the concerns and compassions we so desperately need.
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